
Alex Mammadyarov
Grief Focused Psychotherapist
Greater NYC Long Island & Westchester Upstate New York
Grief & loss Anxiety & transition Trauma & relationships
Offers free consultation
Verified by Autumn
As a licensed mental health therapist, I offer psychotherapy that emphasizes a collaborative experience in the room together. I work individually with people who are processing all types of grief, including the loss of loved ones to both death and estrangement, as well as those going through transitions, encountering challenges in their interpersonal relationships, experiencing anxiety, working through trauma, codependency, or seeking to more deeply explore their self-concept. I also periodically offer group therapy for those looking to process grief from the loss of a parent. When you step into my office, know that you can set aside societal pressures to quickly “move on” from your painful experiences, who or what you have lost, and show up authentically. I approach sessions with warmth and genuineness, bringing my personhood, humor, and empathy to the work. In session, I hold space for you to process and also actively participate, asking questions to help you dig deeper and providing honest feedback. I am right there with you and we are taking a closer look at things together. I believe that you hold more answers than you think you do, so I will empower you by helping you to help yourself. Together we can quiet the noise, go deep, and truly listen to your intuitive voice. I am honored to walk alongside you on your journey inward and offer you insight and tools to carry with you on your way forward.
I graduated from New York University with a B.S. in Communicative Sciences & Disorders, having immersed myself in the subject of speech and hearing, before pivoting into mental health. I received robust on-the-ground training in community mental health as a field-based care coordinator, traveling throughout the boroughs to meet with my clients in their homes. I graduated from Teachers College, Columbia University with an Ed.M. in Counseling Psychology and an M.A. in Mental Health Counseling. Before moving into private practice, I worked in the college counseling setting with a diverse, predominantly first-generation, population of undergraduate and graduate students. Originally from coastal Massachusetts, I called NYC home for nearly a decade, and now live in the lower Hudson Valley. I spent much of my childhood at my family’s video store and find great comfort in film and storytelling. I am a serious music lover, feel most grounded in nature and love spending time with my people and my rescue pup, Gertrude. My own therapy, writing, and meditation round out my personal healing practices.
My therapy practice is founded on Presence, Acceptance, and Compassion. I believe that there is immense transformational power available to us when we are willing to uncover and engage with what has happened to us in this life. By tending to our deepest pains, we can adapt and even find the inspiration to embark upon a fulfilling and joyful existence. To begin, we need to be truly witnessed in a space free from judgment and filled with genuine care. Therapy is a place to show up as you are, to share your story, to be witnessed, and also sometimes, to be challenged to acknowledge and work through unhelpful patterns. I believe that, ultimately, you have the answers you need. I think innately, we all do from a young age, but certain life events cause us to become disconnected from the voice that knows. In our work together, I help you to draw out that intuitive voice that knows what you need and also seek to understand what caused it to become buried in the first place. I do this by being interactive in the room, learning about the difficulties you’re experiencing in the here and now, and applying an eclectic approach, uniquely tailored to you. In large part, I work psychodynamically, seeking to understand the full context of what has shaped you in life since early childhood. Because our healing work always intersects with our social world, I also approach therapy relationally. This means that I guide us to consider the relationship we have in the room, as well as how you show up in your relationships outside of the room. Other modalities I infuse into the work include CBT, DBT, mindfulness, and inner child work. I am spiritually open and welcome the use of tools such as tarot/oracle cards.
Loss & Grief Whether you are experiencing grief over the recent death of a loved one or an estrangement or you are feeling ready to explore the impact of a loss that occurred long ago, you don’t have to do it alone. I have a great deal of personal experience with bereavement and mindfully carry this intimate and sacred knowledge into my clinical work around the subject. I believe that grief is not something to ‘get past’ but to integrate. In working with me, you won’t find empty platitudes and cheerleading that overlooks the depth of your pain. You’ll find companionship as you honor who and what you have lost and learn how to reclaim joy and fulfillment.
Relationships Many people come to therapy to address challenges within their romantic and platonic relationships, seeking to shift patterns that are causing disconnection or stuckness. One area of relational work I am passionate about is family of origin - exploration of early or ongoing family experiences, familial wounds, and generational cycles. Another area I commonly see is codependency or emotional enmeshment, which can look like people-pleasing, disowning of your own authentic thoughts and feelings, or embodiment of the phrase “I’m not okay if they’re not okay”. Sometimes, work around codependency comes hand in hand with healing from narcissistic abuse.
Anxiety Sometimes anxiety presents as a specific phobia (for example: social anxiety) and sometimes we experience it as a general feeling of unease or low-lying dread. You may even describe yourself as an “anxious person”. Rather than using this self-knowledge as a restrictive label, we can reframe it as something to befriend and work with, managing with coping skills tailored to you.
Life Transitions Life transitions, whether chosen or unchosen, can bring on stress and be destabilizing. Examples of common life transitions include moving, graduating, changing careers, forming or ending a relationship, or entering a new life role (ex. Caregiver). Therapy offers a grounding space to process the impact of a transition and the emotions that arise around it.
Trauma Trauma is the emotional (hopelessness, anxiety, etc.) and physiological (sleep, energy, appetite disturbances, etc.) response to a distressing experience or a series of them. Acute trauma can occur after a singular event, such an accident, while chronic or complex trauma can manifest in response to repeated relational trauma (physical, emotional, sexual abuse). Trauma work can look like gentle processing of these experiences, exploration of impact on your life today, and fostering of coping strategies to help you ground into the present. I occasionally make recommendations for additional modalities (ex. EMDR) as needed.
Personal Growth Therapy is not only a service to turn to when in crisis. You can also think of therapy as an outlet for you to deepen your relationship with yourself! This may look like engaging in shadow work to identify and reintegrate parts of yourself that you have disowned, exploring self-esteem challenges at the root, and writing a new story about who you are.

Certifications
- LMHC
- Licensed Mental Health Counselor NEDA Proficient End-of-Life Doula Trained in Jungian Sandplay Therapy Licensed by State of New York / 014051
Education
- Ed.M. in Counseling Psychology M.A. in Mental Health Counseling, Teachers College, Columbia University
- B.S. in Communicative Sciences and Disorders, New York University
Ashe, Individual Therapy
Alex has been an empathetic, gentle supportive coach and guiding light during the last few years of complex family grief, loss, and trauma. I am beyond grateful for her open, curious approach and attentive warmth in our sessions together and would recommend her to anyone seeking assistance with walking through some of life's tougher challenges, no matter what stage of their journey they might be in at the time. Alex will meet her client at the point where they are and has been a wonderful trail partner toward a clearer Life path.
Julien, Individual Therapy
I initially started seeing Alex for grief therapy when I was feeling acutely sensitive, vulnerable, and out-of-sync with everyday life. Her compassion and gentle guidance encouraged me to move through my emotions at my own pace, while also offering questions that held a mirror to, and often challenged, my self-deprecating thoughts. I like to analogize therapy with Alex like a free swim in an open body of water. I’m able to move in any direction I want, but if I start to tread towards harmful ways of thinking, she’s the lifeguard who signals the departure and guides me back. It’s been over two years since we first met, and our sessions have gradually evolved from that place of processing grief and healing into facilitating a healthier and kinder mindset for myself.
Laura, Group Therapy
Though each individual in the group was a stranger to me, I felt so relieved to be around other people who understood pieces of what I had experienced with parent loss. Alex created a safe, supportive environment that I looked forward to being a part of each week. I walked away from our sessions feeling relieved and less alone in my grief journey.
- Grief
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Bisexual Allied,
- Gay Allied,
- Lesbian Allied,
- Non-Binary Allied,
- Queer Allied,
- Racial Justice Allied,
- Transgender Allied
Years In Business
- 4
Number Of Employees
- 1
Service Areas
- Greater NYC
- Long Island & Westchester
- Upstate New York
Languages
- English
Payment Method
- Check
- Credit Card
Individual Therapy This is your time. I will be there to hold space for you and provide support and honest feedback, as we develop a relationship centered upon genuineness and healthy boundaries. Together, we will co-create a meaningful experience from which you can learn more about yourself and tend to what needs healing.
Group Therapy Grief is deeply personal and yet it doesn’t need to be journeyed alone. In group therapy, I facilitate a safe container for grieving people to come together, process their losses, witness and be witnessed, as well as develop new coping strategies. My groups tend to focus on young adult parent loss.
Couples Therapy You might be interested in couples therapy if you are feeling disconnected, struggling with conflict resolution, or preparing for or going through a transition. Couples work helps both individuals better understand their dynamic and reach deeper fulfillment as a unit. The core of our work will be on communication and shifting patterns in real time in the room.
If you align with my philosophy on grief and healing, here are some ways to connect and be supported outside of 1:1 counseling:
Integrating Grief Webinar Not sure therapy is right for you at this time? I’ve crafted a webinar series for those looking to better understand and support themselves through grief. If you are interested in learning more, please reach out!
Seasonal Grief Groups I periodically offer groups that provide a safe container to process your grief, learn coping strategies, and experience a rare sense of community among peers. If you are interested in learning more, please reach out!
Individual My session fee is generally set at $200/session. I accept cash, check, or credit. A sliding fee scale based on annual income may be considered for clients who experience financial hardship. Please reach out for more information.
Couples Price of sessions varies based on length and availability. Please reach out to learn more.
I do not accept health insurance, however, I can provide a monthly superbill for “out-of-network” clinical services, which may be covered in part or in full by your health insurance plan. Please check your coverage carefully by asking your provider these questions:
- Do I have "out-of-network" mental health insurance benefits?
- What is my deductible and has it been met?
- What is my "co-insurance"?
- How many sessions per year does my health insurance cover?
- What is the coverage amount per session?
- Is approval required from my primary care doctor?
In instances where out-of-network benefits are covered, you will be responsible for payment at the time of service and your insurance will reimburse your expenses.
Insurance companies mandate a diagnosis, oversee your health records, and may seek access to your information while in therapy. They also may limit your coverage to a set number of therapy sessions per year, regardless of what you're going through. When considering the implications of using insurance, paying out-of-pocket is a better fit for some. Please feel free to call me to further discuss any questions.
I work individually with young adults, adults, and couples. I welcome people of all racial-ethnic identities, genders, sexual orientations, abilities, and body sizes to my practice.
My practice is fully remote, so you can join sessions from the comfort of your home at a time that is convenient for your schedule. Sessions are conducted via a HIPAA-compliant video platform.
We will meet once a week, during a consistent time slot. Maintaining this consistency is essential Research shows that therapeutic change is due in large part to the therapeutic alliance and like all relationships, they take time and care to grow. If you are ready to invest in long-lasting change, instead of quick fixes that only address the surface, we may be a great fit!
Reach out to schedule a complimentary 15-minute phone consultation. This will give you an opportunity to share with me about your interest in therapy and ask any questions you may have. From there, we may schedule an intake, so that I can learn more about you and your concerns, and we can determine if we feel aligned to begin this deeply fulfilling work.
Address
Dobbs Ferry, NY
Travel Preferences
I support clients virtually (phone/internet)
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